What if you are a person that freezes up when you think you need to come up with or implement a creative idea?
What if even having someone TELL YOU that there are no wrong ideas doesn’t free you up to start sharing ideas in a group?
What if your fear of being wrong is so great that you can’t even start implementing creative ideas that are just for you for fear you’ll goof something up?
Is there hope?
Sure, there is hope.
Typically, the creative thinking exercises we teach and use are a huge source of hope to get past fears about self-judged “bad” ideas. Those creative thinking exercises don’t work for some people, however.
I had someone dealing with these concerns come up and talk with me the other day during a wonderful weekend I spent at the Friends of Georgia State Parks & Historic Sites annual conference. She could be creative in other areas on her own time, by herself. Or she could express creativity when she patterned what she did creatively on someone else’s approach. While she wanted to contribute to the group creative thinking exercises we used, however, she “froze up.”
She was another "Becky," a person we worked with that was miserable in group creative situations.
To help, I bought her a cheap sketchbook (not a nicely bound book that says “don’t mess up a page” to someone like my friend), a few Sharpies, and a couple of the Pilot pens I use to scribble notes. Inside the sketch book, I wrote this message for her.
Finally, we talked about other ways to lower the stakes of imagining and doing something with new creative ideas:
Are you a Becky? If you are, figure out which of these ideas (or others) will work to lower creative stakes for you.
Because the only creative mistake you are REALLY making is missing out on sharing your creativity with the world. – Mike Brown